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"Reactions of Children with Fathers and Brothers in the Armed Forces,"

Two weeks after the enlistment of his 18 year old brother, [an] 11 year old boy, the third of seven children in the family, suddenly carried our his decision to transfer from parochial to public school. He attended the latter only two days before he began to cry whenever his mother tried to force him to go to school and defiantly stated that nobody could make him go. He also threatened to run away, jump out of the window or kill himself. He had always been extremely fond of his enlisted brother whom the mother considered had taken the place of a good father to him, as the rather elderly father was always too tired or cross to be bothered to play with the children. The brother had spent a great deal of time with the boy and took much interest in his daily life .... During treatment when the psychiatrist first mentioned the brother's name, "the boy sat with tears streaming down his face, utterly lost in his misery. He gave the impression of being in a depressed state, was unable to answer questions or say anything, and kept on weeping for several minutes. When he finally dried his tears, he said simply that his brother had gone into the army. When the psychiatrist commented that he liked his brother very much, the boy began to cry again."

George E. Gardner and Harvey Spencer, January 1944, "Reactions of Children with Fathers and Brothers in the Armed Forces," pp. 37 38.

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